Hatred

 Reduce hatred, it has no solution but it will take your piece of mind. 

Rekha

“Swachhata Hi Seva” campaign at ARMY PUBLIC SCHOOL, NEHRU ROAD , lucknow, UP, INDIA.

“Swachhata Hi Seva” campaign at ARMY PUBLIC SCHOOL, NEHRU ROAD , lucknow

Environmental protection has attained highest importance in the current time globally but we neglect the practices of proper waste disposal. We are aware of the impact of improper waste disposal practices, but the negative attitude of implementation gives rise to many environmental problems.

Girl cadets of 20 UP Girls BN. of Army Public School, Nehru Road  had celebrated Gandhi Jayanti by participating  in the movement ‘SWACHCHTA HI SEVA’ . In the campaign cadet participated in many activities like cleaning the NCC room, area surrounded by it , wall painting on clean and green India not only this  Cadets have learned about the waste management, segregation of waste, symbolism of coloured bins kept by cantonment board all around the cantt. and the need of proper disposal of waste through the PowerPoint Presentation in the school auditorium.

To mark the 150 birth anniversary of  Gandhi Jayanti celebration, the cadets were taken to the playground area where senior cadets have demonstrated the proper waste disposal and segregation of waste. Total of 34 cadets had participated in the event under the guidance of 2nd Officer Rekha Shukla, all the cadets took part in the activity with full zeal and zest.

Feminism is imprecise here by Anushka

The very notion of Feminism is imprecise here. A lot of people Don't know what it is, How it works, the objective, the ins and outs of it. Little knowledge that they have is worse than ignorance. Most people who refer to themselves as PROUD FEMINISTS are actually FEMINAZIS.

A true feminist is a humanist . The core idea of feminism revolves around empowering the opperssed women and creating opportunities in professional and educational fields that are equal to men.

A Feminazi on the other hand believes that women are superior and It's absolutely ok to hate on men .

Now here is where the Feminist goes wrong, the Feminazi takes control and erodes Feminism, Jeopardizing equality.

1- The Free Bird !

Now this one wants to roam around on streets go to places they Don't even know about at 2 am with a bottle of beer in one hand a cigar(That they might not even like it ) in another after getting completely baked. It's OKAY TILL HERE (at your perils) now these amazing people want you to join them without giving it a second thought because why not they do the same in the WEST AND WE MUST APE THEM! ( Herd Mentality) And if you raise your concern you're just a conformist and support patriarchy, Aren't contemporary and should’nt exist. Toxic much

I will only step out late at night if I know I am with people i can trust, blindly (Alone,if i have a good knowledge of self defense), I am sober(Although i am a teetotaller), I am aware of the place i will be going to and If I comfortable with it . Under no circumstances shall i compromise on my safety and well being. I am pretty sure if i had a brother or I would have been a man The above mentioned things would have been taken into Consideration. But that doesn't make me any less of a feminist?

2. In your face, The Radicals

This one would burn her Bras, These are the same people who will make a show of their Sanitary Napkins (Make sure everyone notices them) They will Swear atrociously MORE than they regularly do in front of New people so they give off this cool feminist i- Don't- give- 2-shits vibe. They will raise questions like

“Why are we even wearing clothes ?”

“ We Don't want men to treat us like queens. Fuck Chivalry.”

“Why should i do the laundry ?”

“You wear makeup to seduce men.”

I don't fully identify with this picture but some of it does make sense….

They will glorify their period.They have this Radical fanaticism about everything and everywhere.They can stoop down to any level just to seek a shred of attention .Honestly it's embarrassing for me…All this that they do has got nothing to do with Feminism

Don't burn your bras, and make a big deal out of it if you don't wish to use them, Donate. If you really want to brag about your grip and mastery in Condoms, Pregnancy, Periods and Sanitary Napkins and Sex join awareness camps ,educate young children about all of it .You don't need to be so over dramatic and make a federal case out of it .If you want to wear a bikini to a marriage and a Saree to a beach go ahead!

3. Double Standards.

A couple of days ago this famous personality had issues with women who worked even after having kids because apparently Women are meant to sit at home take care of their children once they are born. Maybe she didn't mean what she said. But this needs to be talked about, Let the chips fall where they may!

Women were not educated earlier let alone education they were denied basic human rights , they were conditioned to take care of their families and do the daily chores and they were happy with it (some weren't) because they were accoustomed to it. But now that people have become apprised of women's rights, Do you really think that it's OKAY for them to sit at home after marriage and use nothing of their Education ? I mean it was a compulsion earlier but not anymore. Equality should not be superficial. Why do you have to DEPEND on someone else's money? Just like brushing your teeth, eating your meal, taking your exam EARNING YOUR MONEY NO MATTER THE AMOUNT MUST COME NATURALLY TO YOU.

Being financially independent is one of the greatest achievements and most realistic forms of empowerment in a woman's life. Your parents have educated you , tried to give you the best of everything , just so You can stand upon your feet one day.

(I didn't mean to disrespect anyone . As i said i respect all the Homemakers, I have them in my family too. But time has changed and so has our mindset so millennials choosing not to work is something i find disturbing not that it's Immoral or effects someone else but sorry to say that's not equality.

Feminism stands for EQUALITY.

We need to make everyone cognizant of women's rights and help them practice the same.

This is what Feminism demands.

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What is it that Indian parents are collectively doing wrong? by Anushka

Well a couple of things! I have observed my cousins, friends and their parents and there are things that do bother me. Here we go!

1)Molycoddling is poisonous .

Why do you have to be so over protective of your children.You don't have to agree to everything your children demand.Don’t give into their Tantrums, Make them Humble. Let them face the punishment in school,soil their clothes, You don't have to get them 8 types of Pencil cases , 50 pair of shoes, A play station at the age of 6, Do their homework, Or stop them from playing outside because of pollution and germs…Stop spoon feeding! Let them whine and sulk for a day or two, Let them figure out things themselves Unless you want your child to grow up into an Obnoxious Complacent prick who is oblivious of the real world and thinks he can have whatever he wants without actually working hard.

2) Class Conscious People need to chill

Most of the parents are A Grade classists . Sorry to say that They don't realize it until their child becomes one. But I have heard them saying things like “Don't be friendly with the maid” “Don't talk to her , her father is a clerk” “Don’t sit with them” I did my Schooling from an Army School and they have these Ranks … Officer, JCO and ORs. I was a civilian ,out of this hierarchy but I'd observe them , their behaviors, I had a friend whose dad was an officer ( She found the idea of talking to other students who apparently were not of the same “class” repulsive and was high headed.) I remember we had a PTA meet and her mom said “ Dekho O R ka baccha is doing so good Tumhe toh aur accha karna chaiye beta” (An OR's child is doing so good you are supposed to do Better than them) .

I found this bovine. Parents like these need to realise how abysmal and awful their mindset is. It not only makes your child look down upon their collegues and but also shatters the image of those who work hard to make the two ends meet.

This is the reason why so many teenagers are nothing but hubristic hollow idiots Notwithstanding their so called “HIGH SOCIO ECONOMIC STATUS” . They are proud of something they didn't earn ?

3) Paucity of Freedom gives birth to Rebels

I know it's a tad bit contradictory to what i had written earlier but Parents should be easy with teenagers. Give them the right amount of space and privacy.I understand disciplining your child is essential but you shouldn't restrict them to the point where they become sneaky , start hiding things. Trust me i have a friend and her parents are very Orthodox and strict. She keeps all her meetings clandestine, Her parents aren't even aware of what she does without an iota of shame, It's even worse. You don't want your child to be like her

4) Let your childern Express.

You need to listen to your children patiently and let them share things. You can't expect them to share stuff with you if you can't promise them reliability . This is 21 century , lossen up a bit. Your children will have crushes , they will be curious about things, they would want to go out on sleepovers and movies. Listen to them , advice them, be approachable, Don't lose your nerve if they tell you about something you dissent from. The prime reason why Children start hiding things is because parents are highly uncommunicative.

5) Stop Worshipping the Society.

You don't have to do that. PEOPLE Don't need to be pleased. Stop forcing your decisions on children just because you think the society won't approve of it. Encourage your children to do what they are passionate about , Fan their fames.People are fickle they don't care about you. As they say if it comes let it , If it goes let it.

6) Let your child be.

It's okay if your child doesn't get 95+ in 12 boards or isn't able to make it to the IIT or IIM . Everyone is brilliant they just have different intrests. Don't compare your child to Tom, dick and Harry. Everyone has a different journey and different intrests. Also you are already behind a million people if you don't love what you do . Don't crib about everything they do all the time. It's not healthy for your child and your relationship .

(PS- I feel fortunate to have been raised by a lady who's liberal and Has a sense of wisdom beyond the realm of my understanding. Who has always been supportive of me through thick and thin. The above mentioned points were utterly based upon my observation .)

* Bows down *

NAMASTE

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BIRTHDAY WISH TO MOTHER FROM DAUGHTER.🌹

I love you Mumma. You know me in ways no one else ever will. Without you, i don't know what I'd do... You are my first home my first friend my first inspiration, my first hero. I don't say it often But you mean the world to me. I wear your love and support around me like a big hug for i know that your love for me is like nothing in this world, It knows no law and no pity. The fact that I am a part of you  makes it all the more special
(Esp. my eyelashes and effervescence lol) . And i don't say this because you're my mom.. i say this because You've shown me that even if everything else burns down the wrong way, I can still do something with the embers, Because I know that I am a mess and i have seen you put up with me all these years,You've always been patient and  equanimous even at times when i was cold and rigid, I say this because you've guided me through the storm, because i have been able to learn volumes about Determination and hard work merely by looking at your life and being with you. Thank you for all the Love, compassion and Care. You're the reason i am what i am today.  I will never have enough time here to repay all the love you've given me. I treasure you and not a day  goes by that i don't think of you. Also I am sooo sorry I am not there  with you  today But we will be meeting soon so please don't get mushy and emotional Video chat mei Coz that's not my thing. I wish you the sweetest and Happiest birthday!
Lots of hugs and Kisses and love👩‍👧❤😗.

21 The Magical year.... written by my daughter.ANUSHKA

So i am Going to hit 21 this December…Here is a List of 21 things I learned before 21 in absolutely no particular order.

*LONG POST*

Spread love as you would Cheese!

Most of us don't realize how important it is to be kind and love each other until we are at our worst. Humans crave mad love. Be the person you needed as a kid! At least try? It actually radiates positivity and helps you get over your apathy.

Judge not lest ye be judged…

It's absolutely OKAY to judge people. Human beings are Rational beings and are critical of others…sometimes even themselves! Judging others is normal, However one mustn't Voice it out unless ready to face the backlash for every action has an equal and opposite reaction.

Trust your Gut.

If it doesn't feel right, It probably ain't. Remember you don't have to explain about why you feel about something or someone a certain way… energy doesn't lie. Never ever ignore your gut

.Love yourself

Your relationship with yourself sets the tone of every other relationship in your life.You don't have to be harsh on yourself . If you look down upon yourself others probably will too! If you think you're Ugly well…Don’t expect others to call you beautiful.

Remember don't take yourself too seriously, No one else does .

You maybe the ripest , juciest peach in the world but still there is going to be someone who hates peaches

Don't get affected by what others think of you… Yes it is very difficult, But you need to come to terms with the fact that not everyone will love you or respect you, Not everyone matters right? Don't lose yourself, Just do your thing!

Find people who appreciate the way flowers bloom inside of you and never let them go!

There will be people “SO CALLED FRIENDS” who will try to change you, they will point your insecurities out and massacre your confidence at the drop of a hat. You don't need them in your life anymore. Be with those who bring out the best in you and make you feel special. There will be very few . That's your Tribe. Those who disrespect you, The naysayers need to be jettisoned.

Victim mentality Won't ever help you

Fabrication of victimhood , it makes you sound stupid, An attention seeker. Life's fair because it's unfair to all. Stop cribing, stop complaining ,stop blaming . It won't get you zilch . Channelise your energy in the right direction and work hard for what you think you deserve.Also Do not entertain people who play the victim card. Be a bystander and distance yourself from the Drama queens.

Embrace your soltitude

ⁿIts okay to be alone but not lonely. Cherish your “Me Time” go out on walks, to cafes , eat alone sometimes, pamper yourself. It's helps you know yourself better! Trust me

Life without ambition is like love without sex.

Each one of us is born with a unique ⁿcombination of genes is powerful enough to bring a change by our own little actions. Let your circle be full of people who have ambition and desire.

Stop comparing.

You are different . One of a kind. Your journey, strengths and weaknesses are different. COMPARISON IS FOR CLONES. Don't disrespect your uniqueness by comparing yourself. best for you. When it comes to a customized advice, You know you can count on them. Make them your priority

Don't Bottle them up !

If you feel strongly about something put it on the table. Because it's best not to keep anything inside unless you want to mess it up and create drama . Be very clear about your emotions.

Practice detachment.

Don't ever get attached or dependant on something and someone. Love those who are there right now and be prepared to lose them tomorrow and live with the memories you created with themj. LIVE IN THE MOMENT. They will eventually leave … all of them.

Don't be Nasty

Don't look at people with contempt . I know it doesn't sound fancy but people never forget how you make them feel. Don't say things that are hurtful and mean… You can't fix yourself by breaking others. Never ever bully someone for who they are.

Guilt is poisonous

It will eat you up. Admit your mistakes and refrain from doing anything that'll destroy someone else because when someone says you hurt them you don't get to decide you didn't It's the worst emotion one can experience.

Know how the hurt feels

Be thankful to them, People who leave you shattered and helpless, Failures that make you feel like a loser,. Those dark days apparently teach you the best lessons. They help you grow, evolve as a person. It's all the part of the process… As they say it takes a good fall to know where you stand .

Understand your worth But don't Blow Your trumpet

If you think you deserve better work for it and get it because the moment you settle for less than you deserve you get even less than what you settled for . That doesn't mean you belittle everything and everyone.

Be Carefree Not Careless

Do not indulge in things that take you away from the truth of your values and culture. Know your purpose in life and work hard to achieve your goals. Have fun but not at the cost of your priorities (Learn to prioritize… )

Don't Rush.

Nothing is as unhealthy as a messed up relationship. Be patient you won't die alone. Don't get into a relationship with anyone if you can't handle the heartbreak. It is real and the consequences, Dire. So unless you know what you want, Don't jump into it just because everyone else is.

Little things matter

Smile at stangers, share that last slice of pizza, treasure that long conversation with an old friend….Let the happy vibes travel!

Learn everyday.

Strive hard to become The most intelligent person you know. Discuss ideas with people and apply what you learn and know your shit Anyone can know the point is to understand .

Took me almost 2 hours to write this. Burned 21 kcal lol.

Quiz

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